I came to this site, when my world was turned upside down, with my exfiance's meth use. Greg and I were the
best of friends for 20+ years, and dating on and off. We finally gave a relationship a try, and fell in love.
We were living together, and engaged, when he was introduced to meth. I lost the man that I loved to meth. He became, paranoid, abusive, lying constantly, and
cheating. He got his meth wh*re pregnant and had a son with her.
To make a long story short, he went to prison, and I decided to cut all ties with him. I couldn't take anymore. I never thought that he would get clean. He
spent nearly, 2 years in prison, and by the grace of God, was introduced to a program, and got clean and, remains clean.
His son is a major inspiration to him, as is our relationship. He realizes that he has alot to lose, and chooses to stay clean.
Update: I was suspecting that Greg, was using again, in June 2008. I caught him in, many, many lies, always asking for money... I even found out that he was
back to seeing the methwh*re, he had his son with. It's over. Of course I am crushed, but thankful, it is over.
I truly thought that the love he had for his son and me would have kept him clean. I was so wrong. I just don't understand, how, we could be closer than we
ever were, and he felt the need to use, once again, and end our relationship for good.